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Donald Arrington's avatar

My mother was date raped by someone she was beginning to love; she held it in for seventy years, until her psyche broke at the guilt, blaming herself. This very private woman finally shared the horrible pain and guilt with my brother and me, and, with that revelation and our assuring her that it was not her fault and several ECT sessions, she was restored. Ready to begin life again at the age I am now, unfortunately, complications from scars in her intestines from exploratory surgery in her youth required a late age operation, that left her unable to walk, and, at 84, she stopped eating and prepared for her exit from the planet. All that emotional pain that she carried for all those years and lived through; I wonder how her life might have been different if she had felt agency to share that pain before it was almost too late. ❤️

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Dr Lily Dunn's avatar

Thank you for writing this. It's powerful and important work.

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