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Tammy Faye's avatar

Oh Elizabeth, how beautiful. My love and deepest condolences to you.🌹

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Thank you so much. 💞😘

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Tom Clark's avatar

This essay officially kicked off the healing process for me, Elizabeth. I'm sure it will for many others. Thank you for that. The grief has just turned down a small notch.

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Tommy, that you like it is really all that matters to me. Thank you.

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Teri Simonds's avatar

It’s clear that Fred was a special teacher and friend. My heart aches for your loss. May he rest in infinite love.

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Thanks so much for your lovely words.

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Maria Cataldo-Cunniff's avatar

I'm listening to "In the Mood" as I write this, having just finished reading. Bless you, friend. I wonder whether I can still reach out to some of my most prized teachers. (English and drama teachers, of course) Has it been too long? I'd reconnected and disappeared again and again, always failing to maintain contact. I think I'll forward this essay to them as I reach out. Thank you, Liz, for the good work you do. May your grief be short and your happy memories long.

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Thank you so much. And it’s never too late!

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Karen Richards's avatar

What a beautiful essay about Fred. Thank you for sharing so much about this amazing person.

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Oh thank you. So much.

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Puma's avatar

This is wonderful, Elizabeth. I am looking through your lens at a life and town and teacher I never knew existed. As you said, it couldn't happen now. For me, it couldn't happen then. The lines were drawn and very rarely did a teacher become a friend except for Abby M who married the gym teacher but that was another story.

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Thank you so much Puma. I’m delighted you could see him.

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Mary St John's avatar

Thank you for this wonderful writing about a man loved by many. Sitting here reading this brought back so many fond memories of this man named Fred Franklin. His ability to get 110% out of his students or actors was magic. Hated writing - until he was my teacher. Never had been in front of strangers, family and friends on stage until Fred told me I could do it. Fred Franklin may not have been a rock star or famous actor everyone knew but he was a man much more than them - and he will live on in those who knew him - teacher - mentor - friend. He was indeed "one in a million".

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Thanks so much. Lovely memories.

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Chris Chinn's avatar

Quite quite BEAUTIFUL! I wish I had met Fred…..but now I feel as if I did. He absolutely LIVES on in your words-❤️

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

He would have LOVED you. As do I. Thank you. 💞

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Eddies26's avatar

Thank you. Fred terrified me and I adored him, as it should have been when someone shows you a world outside of your own narrow existence! I remember him telling a bunch of us something like this: ".....don't worry about stupid people, memorize a sonnet...you will always be the most interesting person in the room.."

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

What a great quote from him. Thanks so much.

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Mary M Schroeder's avatar

What a beautiful story of a life long mentor and friend.

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Thank you. 💕

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Lisa A's avatar

Such a beautiful story! He sounds like a wonderful mentor and friend! I'm so sorry for your loss. The director of the Child Care center I taught at for 20 years, died last year, and I was/am still devastated by her loss. She was an amazing, caring, and spiritual woman.

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Elizabeth Grey's avatar

Thanks so very much. 💞

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